Keeping long-term relationships hot and interesting is a challenge. You know this if you’re married, you know this if you’re divorced, and you definitely know this if you read a lot of romance.
In some ways, it’s simpler to make a couple hot when they haven’t been together that long. After all, it’s exciting to be with somebody new, and it’s easy to make discovery and obsession ignite the page when everything is unfamiliar. But after a couple’s been together for a while, keeping things interesting can be a little bit more of a challenge. Although things can be very good without being particularly exciting, people do fall into routines they don’t always find satisfying.
We have three key strategies to keeping a long-term couple hot: